Да видовый, У юзера действительно есть такая галочка но она не выставлена значит можно получать отовсюду
Попробовал в Relay Control выставить Open relay
В результате в майл логе
[12/Aug/2012 13:35:47] Recv: Queue-ID: 502778f3-00000003, Service: SMTP, From: <anair21@land.ru>, To: <werter@timeservice.org>, Size: 1283, Sender-Host: 62.141.94.204, SSL: yes
[12/Aug/2012 13:35:54] Recv: Queue-ID: 502778fa-00000004, Service: SMTP, From: <anair21@land.ru>, To: <werter@timeservice.org>, Size: 1454, Sender-Host: 46.4.113.124
[12/Aug/2012 13:35:54] Sent: Queue-ID: 502778f3-00000003, Recipient: <werter@timeservice.org>, Result: relayed, Status: 2.0.0
[12/Aug/2012 13:35:55] Recv: Queue-ID: 502778fb-00000005, Service: SMTP, From: <anair21@land.ru>, To: <werter@timeservice.org>, Size: 1625, Sender-Host: 46.4.113.124
[12/Aug/2012 13:35:55] Sent: Queue-ID: 502778fa-00000004, Recipient: <werter@timeservice.org>, Result: relayed, Status: 2.0.0
[12/Aug/2012 13:35:57] Recv: Queue-ID: 502778fd-00000006, Service: SMTP, From: <anair21@land.ru>, To: <werter@timeservice.org>, Size: 1796, Sender-Host: 46.4.113.124
[12/Aug/2012 13:35:57] Sent: Queue-ID: 502778fb-00000005, Recipient: <werter@timeservice.org>, Result: relayed, Status: 2.0.0
[12/Aug/2012 13:35:59] Recv: Queue-ID: 502778ff-00000007, Service: SMTP, From: <anair21@land.ru>, To: <werter@timeservice.org>, Size: 1967, Sender-Host: 46.4.113.124
[12/Aug/2012 13:35:59] Sent: Queue-ID: 502778fd-00000006, Recipient: <werter@timeservice.org>, Result: relayed, Status: 2.0.0 .
..... куча сообщений пока не отменил Open relay
[12/Aug/2012 13:37:50] Sent: Queue-ID: 5027796c-0000003d, Recipient: <werter@timeservice.org>, Result: failed, Status: 5.1.1 550 5.7.1 Relaying to <werter@timeservice.org> denied (authentication required)
[12/Aug/2012 13:37:52] Sent: Queue-ID: 5027796e-0000003f, Recipient: <anair21@land.ru>, Result: relayed, Status: 2.0.0
В security логе пишет строку
[12/Aug/2012 12:48:23] Relay attempt from IP address 74.125.83.52, mail from <yyy@gmail.com> to <werter@xxx.org> rejected
Так вопрос КАК это работает ???